Adult Dating is ust so much more fun than teenager dating. Your date doesn't have to run the parent gauntlet before you go out and you don't have to be home by 11pm. This is the time to make your own rules. Twosome, threesome, foursome, MOREsome.
Just remember that you make swinging what it is for you. Do only what you are comfortable with.
Swinging has been around for a long time. There were periods in ancient Rome when it was quite popular. Julia, the daughter of the Emperor Augustus was famous/infamous for her dalliances. People were always surprised that all five of her children looked just like her husband. She replied, "Well that's because I never take on a passenger unless I already have a full cargo," meaning that she waited until she was already pregnant before playing around. We are very lucky in our society to have control over our sexuality and procreation.
"Swinging" allows couples to discover fantasies and desires as a team, enabling a greater understanding of sex which in turn permits sex to take a role in the relationship uninhibited by the usual ties to monogamy, gender roles and other boundaries assumed by couples.
"Women Swingers" have a role that has been greatly evolving over the past 30 or 40 years in swinging. It is not only common, but often times expected that women take the assertive role in choosing "sex partners" and setting boundaries and limits. Swinging allows women and men to explore alternate sex-roles.
Swingers sex activities are as variable and multi-faceted as swingers are. Exhibitionists enjoy having sex with others while their partner watches. Voyeurs are aroused by watching their partners have sex with other people. Some encounters may only include kissing and caressing. Some include oral activities, many involve penetrative sex. A good experience is based on willingness to be honest in your communication and honoring whatever you negotiate.