"Swinging" can be a terrific experience for all involved. Just remember to do your best to respect everyone's feelings and wishes. Happy Swinging!
Swingers sex activities are as variable and multi-faceted as swingers are. Exhibitionists enjoy having sex with others while their partner watches. Voyeurs are aroused by watching their partners have sex with other people. Some encounters may only include kissing and caressing. Some include oral activities, many involve penetrative sex. A good experience is based on willingness to be honest in your communication and honoring whatever you negotiate.
The swingers lifestyle allows you to have sexual variety in the context of a happy marriage; promotes the desirability of each in the eyes of the other; removes the betrayal of deceit; provides sexual opportunities not available to singles; thereby, removing a major cause of break-ups. As you provide each other with their deepest fantasies, swingers can and do make their marriages stronger.
Playing Truth or Dare can be a good ice breaker. Strip Poker is another good game that can be played to set the mood.
Swinging has been around for a long time. There were periods in ancient Rome when it was quite popular. Julia, the daughter of the Emperor Augustus was famous/infamous for her dalliances. People were always surprised that all five of her children looked just like her husband. She replied, "Well that's because I never take on a passenger unless I already have a full cargo," meaning that she waited until she was already pregnant before playing around. We are very lucky in our society to have control over our sexuality and procreation.
When you graph the heartbeat of a healthy person it produces an image that dances all over the page. But when you approach death your heart becomes like a metronome with a monotonous beat. So, a really regular heartbeat reveals a life of sameness and smallness. Swingers really know how to dance. I've never been to a swingers club where the exuberance and joy of being with others didn't explode on the dance floor. And the energy it raises just ignites the entire room. Young in heart, young in mind. There is no better place to be than in a Swinger Community that will keep you dancing a long time.