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Swinging is supposed to be fun, you never want to settle for or have to "cope" with any action before, during or after a swinging encounter. It's NEVER ever too late to say "NO" Should you start to feel uncomfortable even during an encounter, STOP IT!!! If others do not understand your choice, that simply validates that you made the correct decision.

The swingers lifestyle allows you to have sexual variety in the context of a happy marriage; promotes the desirability of each in the eyes of the other; removes the betrayal of deceit; provides sexual opportunities not available to singles; thereby, removing a major cause of break-ups. As you provide each other with their deepest fantasies, swingers can and do make their marriages stronger.

Before attempting anal penetration, be sure you are comfortable,relaxed and at a very heightened state of arousal, ready to orgasm. Sexual Health studies advise MUCH clit stimulation while learning to relax for anal penetration. Also, this stimulation should be performed by YOU or someone who is fully aware of how you like it. Once you are there, ready to explode, your mind and body is ready for just about ANYTHING and the discomfort that at first accompanies anal penetration, you will welcome. Sooo, get that clit hard & ready, use PLENTY of purchased lube, have your partner loosten you up with his fingers (fingers are more gentle than toys) once he slides in, take a deep breath, relax and don't freak when you feel the discomfort caused by the many nerve endings it doesn't last long at all. Allow yourself to orgasm through your clit stimulation and ENJOY! If you orgasm quickly after entry, it's okay to have him remove his penis. Remember, this is a new experience and may take several attempts as well as a patient partner to get you to the point of total enjoyment and full orgasm by anal penetration alone.

Swingers Parties are an opportunity to dress in your sexiest outfit. If you're a guy, wear what you'd wear on a first date when you are trying to impress someone. If you're a girl, it's time to bring out the Valentine underwear. Since you may spend part of the evening in the nude., it is good to bring a robe so you won't have to put all your clothing on to go to the clothed part of the Swing Club. Avoid wearing expensive jewelry which may become lost during the fun. Many Swingers Clubs have theme parties. So, dress the part, you are bringing excitement and adventure into your life, so step outside the ordinary.

There is no one like you. When filling out an adult dating profile, say something about your non-sexual passionsyour job, your volunteerism, your hobby, your art. Its good to have something to talk about when your just recovering from marathon sex. A tree-hugging-dirt-worshiper probably doesn't have anything pleasant to say to paper mill owner!

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