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Swingers are a forward thinking bunch. They look around at the way most people conduct their lives and choose to think for themselves. They choose intimacy and connection with others. They choose pleasure and sharing their lives with others. I appreciate that.

Most Swinger clubs do not allow males to attend without a female partner. Some however do allow males to attend solo on certain nights only. I advise you to never have preconceived expectations of sexual encounters when attending any swinging function. More than likely you will leave unhappy. Attend to meet and mingle with others and if a sexual experience happens, COOL. Becoming a swinger in most instances will not deplete your sexual frustrations overnight, actually it may take time and patience to connect with added partners.

You LOVE sex. Otherwise you wouldn't be here on a swingers site, you'd be on ebay trying to score that rookie baseball card. Monogamy can be difficult when you love variety. The attraction of sexual adventure is so powerful, we can be led astray even if we are enjoying a happy marriage. Our DNA programs us for this. We feel compelled to procreate and the desire of both sexes is monogamy plus adultery.

"Women Swingers" have a role that has been greatly evolving over the past 30 or 40 years in swinging. It is not only common, but often times expected that women take the assertive role in choosing "sex partners" and setting boundaries and limits. Swinging allows women and men to explore alternate sex-roles.

Seeing your spouse pleasuring and being pleasured by someone else can be a real eye opener, it can be difficult the first time. I agree that as a couple you should not be looking for something better than what you have in your relationship together but you must prepare yourselves for the reactions that you will see in your spouse/partner from the pleasures of a possible new technique by an added swinging partner. In making love together there are times, depending on your sexual positions that you cannot see the expressions of your spouse. Prepare yourselves for these expressions when seeing him/her with an added partner. One enhancement while swinging that my husband loves is that he has the opportunity to see me fully in positions with others, allowing him to see ALL of my expressions that maybe he has missed when he and I are alone making love together. Do not expect to be totally comfortable the first time but if swinnging is for you, you will continue to look toward your next experience.

A friend ask me why do some men enjoy watching their wife with another man...yet others are ready to kill. That's a very good question and there really isn't a single answer. Swinging isn't for everyone and I certainly would not attempt to convince a non lifestyle minded person to swing. For those men who are lifestyle minded, seeing their significant other being pleasured sexually by another man is a HUGE turn on that ultimately creates such an erotic enhancement for their love making together. Those not within the swinging community do not or wish not to accept the concept of swinging, recerational sex. Sharing the love of your life with others sexually is simply something that most have no interest in. As lifestyle minded as my hubby is and as much as he enjoys sharing me with our swinging friends, should a man make advances toward me outside of our swinging community, he would be ready to kill as well. Those who are genuine swingers have a common interest with no hidden agendas or threats to one's relationship. Friendship including fun sex, what a concept!

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