If you are a man whose wife wants a MFM threesome, communicate with your wife and be certain that you agree on any guidelines that you may have. Be sure that you both know your limits as to what you will and will not do sexually with an added partner. Be totally sure that your added partner is aware of your guidelines and you of his. Before entering into any sexual activity be sure that all three of you are comfortable. Relax and enjoy everything the experience offers you.
"The Lifestyle", for many couples, increases happiness and contentedness in their relationship as well as a better awareness of themselves and their spouse. Many couples in the lifestyle also report more closeness, less role playing, and a more equal partnership.
I do not live an unexamined life. If you are reading my Girlifesto, you are also driven to search within and without to define the meaning of your existence. Choosing to walk an alternative path is not a frivolous decision. The compulsion to pursue a path not regimented by culture, society, family, or religion requires courage. It is a painful process frequently delayed by false starts, dead-ends, and the restoration needed to recover from fractured illusions.
"Swinging" can be defined as freely engaging in social and sexual intercourse with someone other than your spouse, boyfriend or girlfriend, excluding dating. Many people call it recreational or social sex. "Swinging" may occur at a swing party, a foursome between two couples, a discreet rendezvous, or between a couple and single for a threesome. Although many single men and women are involved, the majority of active swingers are couples.
"Jealousy" can be a harsh reality in The Lifestyle. Both men and women should be on guard, as they could become jealous as soon as their swinging fantasy becomes a reality and they watch as their spouse begin to fondle or even flirt with another person. Many couples are able to work through the jealousy and get to a place where they really enjoy swinging.
"Bi Women" or "Bisexual Women" are becoming more and more common in The Lifestyle. While the popularity of "Bi Men" is also growing, it is growing at a much slower pace and heterosexuals are still the primary type of swingers in The Lifestyle.