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"Jealousy" can be a harsh reality in The Lifestyle. Both men and women should be on guard, as they could become jealous as soon as their swinging fantasy becomes a reality and they watch as their spouse begin to fondle or even flirt with another person. Many couples are able to work through the jealousy and get to a place where they really enjoy swinging.

When considering the lifestyle, the first step is to be sure that you both are fully aware of your desires in what you are seeking. Set guidelines as to what you will and will not be comfortable sharing with others. Seek others who are seeking the same and take it slowly from there.

Swinging is a social activity. Ordinary social customs of being polite, initiating conversations, being a good listener, and the ability to form friendships are all needed characteristics to enjoy your Swing Cub experience. Before you go, discuss the desired outcome of the evening with your partner. Are you comfortable saying yes and if one says know will your partner back you up and not try to coerce you? What sort of safety precautions will you take? Be prepared. Don't rely on someone else to guard your life. If you have friends who attend a club, try to go with them a few times. It will help you to not be nervous.

The Swinging lifestyle is place where those who know their own minds can explore and grow in ways outside the mainstream. It is not a lifestyle for the faint-hearted. You have to have big heart, a big core, to know there is enough compassion in you for many people.

Swingers are a forward thinking bunch. They look around at the way most people conduct their lives and choose to think for themselves. They choose intimacy and connection with others. They choose pleasure and sharing their lives with others. I appreciate that.

When you graph the heartbeat of a healthy person it produces an image that dances all over the page. But when you approach death your heart becomes like a metronome with a monotonous beat. So, a really regular heartbeat reveals a life of sameness and smallness. Swingers really know how to dance. I've never been to a swingers club where the exuberance and joy of being with others didn't explode on the dance floor. And the energy it raises just ignites the entire room. Young in heart, young in mind. There is no better place to be than in a Swinger Community that will keep you dancing a long time.

The first time I ever went to a swingers club, I didn't go there to swing. I was a professional BDSM switch and I used to occasionally work with a Mistress. She called me and asked if I wanted to do some public play with a cross-dresser from out of town. He could never go out dressed where he lived, so being seen by others was a great turn on.

He was tall with great legs. Cross-dressers always have the best legs. They make me jealous. He was all dressed up in heels and hose, in a red dress, with a blond wig. We went to 2Risque in Atlanta, Georgia. Everyone there was friendly and open to us doing a little BDSM play.

He sat down on a barstool and I took a 30 foot latex strap about 3 inches wide and tied him to the chair with his legs spraddled wide open. I then took a knife and cut off his hose, and played with him with various toys. The local swingers were kind enough to stop by, fondle him, and give him lots of sweet attention. We had a great time, and he went home very happy.

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