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We have discovered that without a doubt the best way for us to "break the ice" is to become involved together as a couple first. The other couple will become involved together as well and before you know it everyone is relaxed and extremely aroused. Swapping partners seems to happen naturally creating a totally AMAZING swinging encounter.

Unless you had a set guideline that in a party setting the 2 of you would swing as a cpl, neither of you are at fault. To get past this, do not place blame. Communicate with one another concerning where events went wrong and decide on what you need to do as a cpl to prevent this from happening again in the future. I cannot stress enough the importance of setting guidelines and sticking to them. It's only human nature to place blame when something goes wrong but a healthy swinging relationship has no room for pointing fingers. With set guidelines there is no margin of error and everyone has a good time.

Seek those in your area who are seeking just as you are. Be patient and you will find what you are looking for. Also, many couples enjoy threesomes so don't feel as if you must be a couple to swing.

Decide what your swinging style is.

• Closed: I don't want to be around when my partner is having sex with someone else
• Open: I love to watch and I have to watch.
• Soft: I want the appetizer to be otherskissing, heavy petting, etc. But, the main eventintercoursemust be with my partner
• Voyeur: I just want to watch, I'll have sex when I get home.
• Exhibitionist: I just want to perform for others. You can look, but don't touch.

All of these are acceptable behaviors. Just know what you want and be able to express it.

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