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"Swingers" can be found in every race and profession. All levels of education and ethnicities are present. Most swingers, however, are Caucasian, middle to upper middle socio-economic class, and married. Both married and unattached "swingers" often tend to be venturous, sophisticated, and social creatures. Most single women who join swing clubs find them to be a revitalizing substitute for the usual bar scene.
"Swinging" can be a terrific experience for all involved. Just remember to do your best to respect everyone's feelings and wishes. Happy Swinging!
Many new swingers try "soft swinging" first, often times, without even intending on becoming swingers. A little alcohol between close, attractive friends is sometimes all it takes to spontaneously spark the swinging bug. "Soft Swinging" can include flirting with someone other than your partner, but only have sex with your partner. "Hard Swinging" comes into play when "sex partners" are exchanged or shared.
Stranger in a Strange Land by Robert Heinlein published in 1961, won the 1962 Hugo Award This was the first book I ever read that had swingers in it. Well, it wasn't called swinging, but the orgies and communal living certainly inspired the generation who decided to throw off the shackles of conventional sexuality. It is considered to be the most socially influential book ever written by Robert Heinlein. The main character, Valentine Michael Smith was the child of the first Mars expedition. The crew died on Mars and he was raised by Martians. When he returns to Earth in his twenties, he is human in appearance, but culturally an alien. His otherworldly views and experiences take a hard look at human behavior. It asks why do we do the things we do and should we continue in the same way. Politics, religion, sexuality, marriage are all examined through alien eyes. The book actually spawned a pagan church. It made me think about what I do and why I do it. When I read it, I was still in a very narrow minded church. Though I continued in the religion another 15 years, it did change how I looked at religion. I decided that religion was like being made into a bonsai tree. My essential nature could not be changed. A maple is a maple is a maple. What I hoped was that the strictures and limitations of my church could be used to concentrate and distill my essence into something beautiful. Many new swingers try "soft swinging" first, often times, without even intending on becoming swingers. A little alcohol between close, attractive friends is sometimes all it takes to spontaneously spark the swinging bug. "Soft Swinging" can include flirting with someone other than your partner, but only have sex with your partner. "Hard Swinging" comes into play when "sex partners" are exchanged or shared.
Cheating is not only ugly, cheating IS NOT swinging! Couples in the lifestyle ARE NOT looking for something better or for what attracts one to cheat. The excitement couples experience when swinging together is most euphoric and surpasses any erotic feeling that could possibly be felt while cheating.
NO always means NO! The Golden rule of swinging. Be sure that you are aware of the guidelines of any prospective partner/partners and make them aware of yours. We all prefer clean, safe sex so be squeaky clean and fully aware of what is expected concerning condoms and other safe sex methods. Use your common sense, swinging is only sex, simply with added partners.
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