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Swingers are a forward thinking bunch. They look around at the way most people conduct their lives and choose to think for themselves. They choose intimacy and connection with others. They choose pleasure and sharing their lives with others. I appreciate that.

There is no one like you. When filling out an adult dating profile, say something about your non-sexual passionsyour job, your volunteerism, your hobby, your art. Its good to have something to talk about when your just recovering from marathon sex. A tree-hugging-dirt-worshiper probably doesn't have anything pleasant to say to paper mill owner!

If you have totally connected online and have discussed the guidelines of all involved, you all may enjoy the contact flirting when meeting. You may want to even propose this question to your friends before meeting them. Their feelings on it will certainly give you the "heads up" as to determining your actions. Restaurants and bars are a popular place for swingers to plan a first meeting. But to allow for more personal conversations without running the risk of being spotted or overheard, we prefer to meet at a local public park. This allows for privacy in a non threatening setting and also offers you a quick exit without spending the money on an expensive evening should things go bad. In the event all is cool, then plan your evening from there.

If you want your sex personals profile to be effective you must realize that sex is a vehicle. The destination is up to you. You can use sex as an art, a sport, a path to enlightenment, a ritual, a sacrament, an ego pig-out or a weapon, just to name a few. The important thing to know is what is it for you and are you articulating your wants/need/desires to the person/persons you are asking to get into the vehicle with you. So, know yourself. Be honest. Be real. Just being polite or nice doesn't work. Being nice is like faking orgasm, it benefits no one. Being real is more likely to help you and your partners fulfill their innermost desires. Then, remember to be kind. We are all different and when we honor each other's differences we make the world a better place.

I looked up swing in a dictionary recently. There were 22 different definitions, some verbs, some nouns. My favorite one is to live in a lively, modern, relaxed style. A swinger has all these attributes. He wants to live life, not watch it or let it pass by. She's a forward thinker, able to think outside the box. They really appreciate the pleasurable, physical, part of life. This relaxed attitude allows them to connect with others in meaningful ways.

For a loving couple who are unable to say, I will never have or want to have sex with anyone but you, swinging is the answer. After all if they were an artist, you wouldn't want to confine them to one color in the paintbox.

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