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If someone you swings with starts to have feelings for you, first you certainly would tell your spouse/partner! You must always maintain an open, honest communication within your relationship. I would not only tell this "too attached" swinging partner that it's inappropriate, I would also tell them that you do not share those feelings, that you have told your spouse/partner and that you will no longer be swinging with them. You may want to stay friends but I would advise you to place distance between you and them. This kind of situation happens much more often than many of us may realize. Those not into polyamory do not accept this while swinging but there are many polyamorous swingers. For you in this situation, simply move on.

Long before the situation cums (Pun intended lol) you should have discussed where to make your deposit! If you find yourself in the situation and you are about to erupt, the ONLY proper thing to do is to pull out and let it flow into your hand or on the sheets. I have been in situations where the guy has asked me at that point and because we have no issues with it, it was not a problem but if issues are present it could spoil the experience. I advise you to "cover your bases" and always know where to make that "deposit" before entering the "bank"

I believe that the prevalence of bi-women compared to bi-men is a result of cultural bias. Think about the way we look at bi-sexuality, Bi-sexual women are SEXY Bisexual men are SCARYThere is so much fear of male alternate sexuality, it takes tremendous courage to express it anywhere, even on a Swingers com site such as this. Women traditionally accommodate their men. Perhaps their bi-experiences begin that way, but I think women are able to think more creatively about emotional issues and so are more likely to express curiosity, inclination, and attraction for the same sex. I used to say I wasn't bi, necessarily, I just had no gender prejudices. :-) Then I realized after having played with more than a dozen women, I wasn't just without prejudice, I genuinely enjoyed sex with women in a playful setting. I just didn't want to marry them. :-)

The swinger life style requires a lot of stamina. We play hard, not hard-to-get. Now there are a lot of sexual enhancement drugs you can take, but they are not for everyone. There are natural alternatives that can make you healthier, give you energy, and increase your lifespan. Every continent has its own favorites. I hope you will do your own research and find what works best for you.

"Swinging" allows couples to discover fantasies and desires as a team, enabling a greater understanding of sex which in turn permits sex to take a role in the relationship uninhibited by the usual ties to monogamy, gender roles and other boundaries assumed by couples.

"Jealousy" can be a harsh reality in The Lifestyle. Both men and women should be on guard, as they could become jealous as soon as their swinging fantasy becomes a reality and they watch as their spouse begin to fondle or even flirt with another person. Many couples are able to work through the jealousy and get to a place where they really enjoy swinging.

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