I must say though that yes, jealousy is present within the lifestyle and just because one may have jealousy issues, it does not indicate that they do not have a place within the swinging community. Jealousy for most can be dealt with using baby steps and proper guidance. Hiding it and denying it is what causes the drama.
Adult Dating is ust so much more fun than teenager dating. Your date doesn't have to run the parent gauntlet before you go out and you don't have to be home by 11pm. This is the time to make your own rules. Twosome, threesome, foursome, MOREsome.
The Swinging lifestyle is place where those who know their own minds can explore and grow in ways outside the mainstream. It is not a lifestyle for the faint-hearted. You have to have big heart, a big core, to know there is enough compassion in you for many people.