If you have totally connected online and have discussed the guidelines of all involved, you all may enjoy the contact flirting when meeting. You may want to even propose this question to your friends before meeting them. Their feelings on it will certainly give you the "heads up" as to determining your actions. Restaurants and bars are a popular place for swingers to plan a first meeting. But to allow for more personal conversations without running the risk of being spotted or overheard, we prefer to meet at a local public park. This allows for privacy in a non threatening setting and also offers you a quick exit without spending the money on an expensive evening should things go bad. In the event all is cool, then plan your evening from there.
"Swinging" can be defined as freely engaging in social and sexual intercourse with someone other than your spouse, boyfriend or girlfriend, excluding dating. Many people call it recreational or social sex. "Swinging" may occur at a swing party, a foursome between two couples, a discreet rendezvous, or between a couple and single for a threesome. Although many single men and women are involved, the majority of active swingers are couples.
I looked up swing in a dictionary recently. There were 22 different definitions, some verbs, some nouns. My favorite one is to live in a lively, modern, relaxed style. A swinger has all these attributes. He wants to live life, not watch it or let it pass by. She's a forward thinker, able to think outside the box. They really appreciate the pleasurable, physical, part of life. This relaxed attitude allows them to connect with others in meaningful ways.